Craig Virani: because they may have too many bf's and not be able to select the right one for themselves
Sol Bayn: Uh....because it's a sin???
Herma Ellebrecht: Because they are always getting the short end of the stick. No pun intended.
Fred Caminita: The way I see it is-if I am going to be able to sleep with anyone I feel like while I am married and suppose to be devoted to only that person why get married? Marriage is a commitment between two people, if you want to get married and have fringe benefits then you don't really love that person and there is no need to get married. You are definitely not ready for a serious relationship.
Rocio Karvis: Maybe your marriage is not "all that", maybe you need to work on it or just get a divorce. If you can't commit to just one person, then you are too immature to get married. Marriage is between 2 people that love each other, not 2 people that want other lovers. That defeats the purpose of marriage. You m! ight as well not get married if your going to go out and have sex with lots of people, not to mention the nasty STD's that would be brought home. If you were married to someone that you truly love, you wouldn't want anybody else. The way you live your marriage is your business, but I love my husband and would not think of sleeping with some one else, my feelings for him are too strong, to think of sleeping with someone else. And if I started to have these feelings, I would have enough courage, to tell him, that I didn't want to be with him....Show more
Zelma Casebier: because we want tradition... thats want, we dream of it all our lives, TRUE LOVE... and that comes with 1 parter marrige...
Mitchell Pickens: To complicated to get alimony and child support.
Cordia Fivecoat: cause it defeats the purpose of getting married in the first place. Usually is goes again the vows as well. If you're not ready for a marriage, don't get married.
Rheba Cockman: I! f you find marriage to be boring.....that is merely your opini! on.And e/one has a right to an opinion. However, never judge anyone, or try to impose your standards on others. Life isnt all that complicated, if one is able to accept others for who/what they choose to believe, with no harm to one who has beliefs contrary to another.
Coralie Goldsberry: umm, because if you wanted to still be with other people you shouldn't of married her....basically your defeating the purpose of being married. A contradiction, and as a man that makes you look pretty low. think about it......this was a silly question
Vida Miss: Maybe because they don't want to get AIDS.
Robin Weelborg: If you would have a hot wife, you would be against these called "open marriages". Better don't get married. Why is called marriage then?
Hubert Jestes: 'cause marriage is saying "i want you, and only you" not "i want you and four others when your bored"
Cuc Gire: many men are also against open marriages. Why get married if you still want to b! e with multiple people? I suppose there could be financial reasons...or children.....But that is more of a "business arrangement" than a marriage anyways.
Elden Dedon: You say marriage isn't all that you are being generous. Marriage sucks!!! The reason women don't want an open marriage is because that means you will be happy. It is impossible for any woman to be happy so because of that they always want you to be miserable too!!!
Karl Samiec: Because of the conditioning women receive their whole lives of monogamy and marriage.
Jeremy Donohue: The point of a marriage is to commit yourself to ONE person for eternity (or at least until the divorce is finalized). That being said, it's not a marriage if it's "open".
Rose Krouse: we aren't. some of us know that men are gonna do what they wanna do anyway, so we do the same. just marry your best friend so they can be taken care of when you die. but stay married 10 years or it was pointless as neither o! f you will reap the benefits.
Sherri Drakos: Because most people ! wouldn't want to share their husband or wife with other peole there was no point in getting married if your going to mess around with other people.
Javier Holsonback: some people are and some people are not
Marya Fehn: I'm all for open marriage! I think it would make my relationship with my husband stronger, especially if you try it and find you actually prefer to be with your partner.
Troy Monsivais: why u will get marry to be sooo open... stay single or not married avoid the dramaas easy as that :D
Perry Deshazior: Then why get married, marriage is a commitment.
Lindsey Zanardi: Because a marriage is suppose to be 2 people vowing their love and devotion to each other for the remainder of their lives. If it's an open marriage, then it's not a marriage. It's a date or something
Neville Dautremont: Why?!! You ask! Because if there is a marriage there is normally children involved and the worst possible thing you can do to a child is show t! hem that it is alright to have lots of other partners other than Mommy, It sets a bad example and suddenly 20 years from now we have a load of kids thinking it is acceptable to sleep with anyone and everyone!Another reason is that marriage is a sacred thing if you are getting married then you are committing yourself to that person.If you want an open relationship DON'T GET MARRIED!Whats the friggin point.People like you annoy me!...Show more
Irving Jordahl: You say that marriage isn't all that. Marriage can be wonderful if you make the most of your commitment to each other. Beside the fact that adultery is wrong, it is gross to think that my husband would sleep with another woman then have sex with me. Even if you are "open", in your marriage, to having sex with other people you can't be completely (100%) committed to your spouse.
Olin Hallin: Because the Bible says to be faithful and most vows include that as well. Besides, we as humans are jealous creatures an! d nothing good ever came from sharing our spouse with another. It can o! nly end in tears.
Walter Scordino: I love and trust my husband. We waited for each other our whole lives and that made it all the more while. I wouldnt want to have to worry about the diseases going around these days with my husband and another woman. Sex outside of would create a rift btw husband and wife, its not special anymore. Sex is supposed to be for husband and wife not husband wife and girl next door.
Davina Shindler: Like Jacqui said...if you aren't willing to commit to just one person, you are too immature--or not in love enough--to marry.
Arnoldo Budzynski: Because you can't have your cake and eat it too.
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